Rabbi Michael Beals November
2012
The Rabbi Speaks
Tis the gift to
be simple, 'tis the gift to be free
'Tis the gift
to come down where we ought to be,
And when we
find ourselves in the place just right,
'Twill be in
the valley of love and delight.
When true
simplicity is gain'd,
To bow and to
bend we shan't be asham'd,
To turn, turn
will be our delight,
Till by
turning, turning we come 'round right.[2]
At Thanksgiving time, no song seems to fit the season as well as Simple
Gifts. It is a Shaker song, written and
composed way back in 1848 by Elder Joseph Brackett. Maybe it’s kind of odd opening the Rabbi
Speaks with a Shaker song. Of course
there IS a Jewish connection. The song
was virtually unknown outside the Shaker community until a nice Jewish boy
named Aaron Copeland made it famous in his magnificent ballet score for Martha
Graham’s ballet, Appalachian Spring,
first performed in 1944.
And speaking of gifts – what a gift to hear this piece sung
by my friend and colleague, the new Cantor of Congregation Beth Shalom, Elisa
Abrams. And if you think it’s eclectic
to have a rabbi showcasing a Shaker song, get this. Elisa Abrams is the first Latina to serve as
a Jewish spiritual leader in the History of Delaware – she’s Cuban on her mom’s
side and Argentinean on her dad’s side.
Do you know what that means? It means the liturgical music sung
at Sabbath services at Beth Shalom suddenly got really interesting. But don’t take my word for it – come
check out services at Beth Shalom, over on 18th and Baynard Blvd.
any Friday night or Saturday morning, and see for yourself.
I am VERY grateful to be working with Cantor Elisa. At this time of year, gratitude should start
with those closest to you – your co-workers, fellow students, your spouse, your
parents, your children. We need a
Thanksgiving Day to snap us out of our complacency – to truly appreciate what
we have and not take those closest to us for granted.
I’d like to let you in on a little secret not commonly
known outside the Jewish world. I know,
on the secular calendar, this past Thursday was Thanksgiving. But on the Jewish calendar EVERY day is
Thanksgiving day. No, we do not consume
turkey every day – if we did Jews would be known NOT as The People of the Book,
but rather, the People of the Yawn, due to the well-known sleep-inducing
qualities of tryptophan – a byproduct of turkey meat.
Jews are commanded to say 100 blessings every day – and a
lot of those blessings are blessings of gratitude. Follow me as we take a walk in the footsteps
of an observant Jew. If you are
Christian, think of this as the ultimate WWJD experience, as there was no more
observant Jew than JC.
The observant Jew awakes, and the first thing he says is Modeh Ani, the first thing she
says is Modah Ani … I am
thankful. I am thankful, Melech Chai v’kayam, Sovereign who lives
and establishes, for you returned in me my soul with kindness, great is your
faithfulness. For the Jew, every
morning is Resurrection Day. For the
devout Jew, every day is Easter Sunday, every day is miraculous
as each and every one of us experiences resurrection … daily! It is as if God is saying I validate
you, I believe in you, that is why I decided to reimplant
your soul in your body – now make something of this day!
We get up. We get out of bed. We use the bathroom. As we come out, we say a blessing thanking
God that each of our internal plumbing closed and opened at the appropriate
time or else it would be impossible to stand before our Maker. Come on.
What other religion has a “Going to the Bathroom Gratitude
Prayer”? We are a grateful people. But wait, there’s more!
The serious Jew then goes to synagogue where the first
thing out of our mouths are 14 prayers of gratitude, beginning with praising
the rooster, yes the rooster, for knowing the difference between night and day
so it would cockle doodle doo and wake us up, then we utter gratitude prayers for our ability to get out
of bed, to put on clothes, all the way through a general prayer of thanks for
giving us strength to make it through the day when we are weary.
I was listening to National Public
Radio last week. Yes, I give thanks for
NPR. They interviewed an author named Anne Lamott, who just wrote a new book,
called Help, Thanks, Wow: The Three Essential
Prayers. In an
excerpt from her book, she writes: "Well, I've heard people say that God is the gift of
desperation, and there's a lot to be said for having really reached a bottom
where you've run out of anymore good ideas, or plans for everybody else's
behavior; or how to save and fix and rescue; or just get out of a huge mess,
possibly of your own creation.
"And when you're done, you may
take a long, quavering breath and say, 'Help.' People say 'help' without
actually believing anything hears that. But it is the great prayer, and it is
the hardest prayer, because you have to admit defeat — you have to surrender,
which is the hardest thing any of us do, ever."
I was particularly interested in the
ordering of her three prayers: thanks
first, followed by help, and culminating in wow. For 2000 years, three times daily, during
the week, Jews recite the Amidah, 19
benedictions, beginning with Wow – we call it Praise, but Wow works fine,
followed by Help, concluding with Thanks.
Of gratitude, Lamott comments, "Thanks is the prayer of relief that
help was on the way. ... It can be [the] pettiest, dumbest thing, but it could
also be that you get the phone call that the diagnosis was much, much, much
better than you had been fearing. ... The full prayer, and its entirety, is: Thank
you thank you thank you thank you thank you. But for reasons of brevity, I
just refer to it as Thanks.
"It's amazement and relief that
you caught a break; that your family caught a break; that you didn't have any
reason to believe that things were really going to be OK, and then they were
and you just can't help but say thank you."
In the Jewish faith, this gratitude prayer, is called Modim, Here is an excerpt: “We thank You and proclaim Your praise for our lives which are in Your hand, for our souls which are in Your care, for Your miracles which are daily with us, and for Your wondrous kindness at all times—morning, noon and night.”
In the Jewish faith, this gratitude prayer, is called Modim, Here is an excerpt: “We thank You and proclaim Your praise for our lives which are in Your hand, for our souls which are in Your care, for Your miracles which are daily with us, and for Your wondrous kindness at all times—morning, noon and night.”
And
then there are those special moments: festivals, New Moon celebrations, times
consecrated with an additional Hallel service, corresponding to moments in our
Biblical past, where special sacrifices were brought first to the Tabernacle, during
our 40-year wandering in the desert, and later to the Temple in Jerusalem. With the destruction of the Temple, we lost
the sacrifices but we have held on to the Hallel service. As we look on our Thanksgiving celebration,
it seems appropriate to remember the quintessential prayer of the Hallel
liturgy: “Give thanks to God, for God’s love endures forever.” And who better to conclude this special
Thanksgiving edition of the Rabbi Speaks than Cantor Elisa Abrams, setting
these words of gratitude to their original Hebrew text. This is my thanksgiving
gift to you.
Hodu l’Adonai ki tov, ki l’olam hasdo.
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